Term: Casual
Vibe Check: You might hear this term when your teen is talking about a low-pressure, easygoing gaming session, or referring to a game that's not competitive or intense. It can also refer to a type of gamer who enjoys playing games for fun or relaxation, rather than competition or skill-building.
What to Say First: "Hey, I heard you mention 'casual' gaming earlier. Is that what you're doing when you're just chilling with your controller?"
Follow-Up Prompts:
- "What makes a game 'casual' for you? Is it the gameplay, the pace, or something else?"
- "Can you name a few of your favorite casual games? What do you like about them?"
- "Do you ever switch from 'casual' to a more competitive style of play?"
What You’ll Learn: This conversation can help you understand what your teen values in their gaming experience. Are they drawn to the relaxation and escapism of casual games, or do they also enjoy the thrill of competition?
Connection Win: By showing interest in their gaming preferences, you're validating their hobby and creating an open dialogue about how they spend their leisure time. It’s not just about the game—it's about recognizing their choices and understanding their world a bit better.